Meals

When the schools first shut down, we helped pack meal kits-lunches and breakfasts-for Mon County school kids. The next day we delivered the kits to Jakes Run and distributed most of them. We dropped our extras off at Statlers Country Store. We met nice people-many saying "God Bless You". We are blessed to have served.

Spring 2020

We did this for 5 or 6 weeks. That's Bob in the first picture, missing his 6 month haircut.

Moments

 

Life in this COVID pandemic world can get lonely. . . so it was especially nice to meet with old friends during the fall. I was fortunate to get together with my life long friend Vicki prior to her move to Florida, then to attend a retirement for colleagues Brenda & Anne with my friend Betty.

Inside the sewed on pocket are thank yous and notes from these friends.

2020

Sixty Six

We celebrated Bob's birthday at our favorite Cabin 1 (Holly River) getaway.

September 2020 

Got My Wish

 

"Got my wish-you" were the printed words on his anniversary card. We celebrated fittingly with a picnic at Chestnut Ridge Park. You've had my love and devotion for 44 years. . . I'm ready for many more!" 2020

I've been sewing pockets on my pages-placing treasured ephemera or pictures inside the pocket. This one has Bob's beautiful card and some pictures of us over the years.

Together

Mom's memorial was held on what would have been her 95th birthday. After the chapel service, each of the attendees lay a red rose on the grave where Dad is also buried. The celebration of life was special-Mom would have enjoyed it all.

August 31, 2020

Mom

Mom passed away June 26 at home in her living room chair. She was happy and not sick, just ready to rest. Terry and Jimmy have been taking good care of her in the shutdown. She enjoyed the lunches the Tri-Towns Sr. Center brought her daily and smiled at the driver when he brought her meal the day she passed. She loved Amy’s daily calls from Cleveland. We took her an ice cream sundae the day before (which she enjoyed) and she held my hand, blowing kisses.

Plans are to have her memorial August 31 which would have been her 95th birthday. She was planning on living till then. She'll be buried with Dad at Rocky Gap Veterans Cemetery.

2020

Decades in Review

In 2003, I made layouts for each of the decades we've lived in beginning with the 1950s. (Yes, I'm that old!) I used excerpts from the book "Generations at Work" for the Seminal Events and Cultural Memorabilia to place on the layouts along with our recollections of the time.

And now we end another decade! Here's my latest addition:

 

     At the start of the decade, Dad & Mom still fix Sunday breakfast for Terry & I. We have several visits with Dad's cousin Bernice and her niece Gerry. We had 90th birthday celebrations for both Dad and Mom. Dad passes away at age  92
in 2014.
    Greg moves to Minnesota to reunite with Michelle and complete his PhD. They marry in 2012. When he gets a professorship at USC, they move to Columbia. In 2019 they both land ideal jobs in Sweden.
    Chris graduates high school and college. He graduates early and lands a job at Mylan to start 2015. He buys a townhouse, then a house with a yard where he lives with his labrador Hank.
    I retire in 2015 and Bob leaves the Dominion Post. He drives pilot cars for OSI where the wide load drivers request him as an escort because he's good at it. Bob leaves OSI in 2019. We take lots of overnight trips and camera adventures along with Sunday picnics. We work together to conduct monthly samplings at the Farmers Market for 4 seasons. There we make lots of friends. When Bob retires from OSI, he goes with me on my weekly trips to Moms and our lunch at the Senior Center. I love my water aerobics classes at the local rehab hospital.

In our country: 
Big Data and Big Tech expand.  Consumers prefer credit and debit cards over cash.  Online shopping brings box store and mall closings.  Self-checkout machines become widespread.  US becomes world's largest crude oil producer. Drones, hybrid vehicles, car sharing services emerge.  Soap operas loose popularity in favor of reality shows.  Smart
phones and social media gain popularity.  Gluten free diets are popular. There is an increase in vegetarians and vegans.  Food presentation becomes more important.  Soda sales dip in favor of healthier options.  Michael Phelps becomes the most decorated Olympian.  Baby boomers retire, putting pressure on pension and other safety programs.  An interest in local and organic foods carried over from the last decade are part of green and sustainable living.  In 2010, the Deepwater Horizon oil rig in the Gulf of Mexico explodes, spilling millions of gallons of oil into the sea. In 2011, Osama bin Laden, leader of al-Qaeda and mastermind of the September 11 attacks, is killed by U.S. Navy
SEALs.  In 2013 , terrorists attack the Boston Marathon. In 2015, same-sex marriage is legalized in all 50 US states. In 2016, U.S. presidential election, Donald Trump is elected president  In 2018 , the entire West Virginia Supreme court of Appeals is impeached.

"00" Decade

This decade began with the Y2K panic. On 9-11-2001 the World Trade Center & the Pentagon were jet-bombed by terrorists. The US and Allies overthrew and occupied Afghanistan and Iraq. The dot-com stock markets crashed and the "Harry Potter" books were published.

I have so many memories from this decade and pictures to help me remember. The journaling is placed behind the photo of Bob and I. Here are a few highlights: "We began the new century as a family of 4. Every Saturday Bob takes the boys to Pokemon League at the local comic store. Chris still joins me for reading at bedtime (a tradition started with Greg). Bob starts his job at the Dominion Post. Chris decorates his room all Sponge Bob. The boys & I visit Maxine bringing her lots of presents. Greg brings Michelle into our lives. Mom is honored in a Rosie the riveter ceremony and interview. Maxine passes away at age 85. Greg graduates high school with many honors. Dad is honored with many medals from the US Marines for his world War II service. Chris joins a search party when his friend Mikah's autistic brother is lost in the wilderness for days. Greg becomes a gaming journalist. My nephew Cale is born & nephew Brian is married. Chris is elected to state offices in TSA. Michelle graduates WVU with a double major & joins Cummins Diesel. I speak at an International Conference for the Whole Grains Council.

Bob and I work, work, work but so enjoy our time as a couple when we travel and take pictures. I think he appreciates my recording of memories".

December 2010

The 90s

In the later 90s, our careers take a creative turn when Bob goes back into the newspaper business, taking a photography job at the Fairmont Times. I move back to the Health Sciences Center, managing the cafeterias in the old hospital. Our lives were full and good.

In 1992, Gregory enters Kindergarten at the Presbyterian Church,one of many good schools in his young life. Bob & begin dating again, taking mini vacations with Greg or overnights where Greg stays at Grandma Junes'. On February 8, 1993, Christopher Jordan Gay arrives into the world, one month before my 40th birthday. Chris' mind absorbs much through great preschools, observing his older brother and having parents who read to him.

Seminal events include: Operation Desert Storm, the Oklahoma City bombing and the Clinton/Lewinsky scandal. Memorabilia include: Barney, Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles, Dark Wing Duck, Miami Vice, Pogs & Beanie Babies.

Layout made in 2003.

The 80s

We brought in the 80s in Charleston, WV, where Bob was an award winning news photographer and I worked as a consultant in school lunch and long term care. We moved back to Morgantown in 1982. Bob taught visual communications at Waynesburg College and I was the dietitian in WVU Dining Services. In 1984, we built our house on Mountain Meadow Drive. Gregory James Gay was born on February 23, 1987. While our careers were important to us, nothing was more meaningful than being home as a family.

Seminal Events include: 1980--John Lennon shot and killed. 1980--Ronald Reagan inaugurated. 1986--Challenger disaster. 1989--Fall of Berlin wall. Cultural memorabilia include "The Simpsons", ET, and Cabbage Patch dolls.

Layout made in 2003

The 70s

Bob and I met in 1973 while students at WVU. Bob was a teaching assistant in J120, the photography class I took as a junior. It was love at first sight. We spent our free time together, with cameras in hand. After graduation and my Dietetic Internship in Richmond, we married in 1976. Our careers took us from Morgantown to Huntington, where Bob worked at the newspaper and I worked at St. Mary's Hospital.

Seminal events include the Watergate scandal and massive layoffs in US corporations. "The Brady Bunch" was a popular TV show and platform shoes were introduced.

If you look closely at the photos in the "negative strip" you'll see Bob's famous Streaker photo. Hundreds of students gathered in front of the Mountainlair student union to witness this epic event and Bob captured it on film.

The 60s

In 1962 John Glen circled the earth. President Kennedy was assassinated in 1968 and in 1969 we watched the first man walk on the moon. Hula Hoops were in and "Laugh-in" was on TV.

In school, I made a lot of friends. I was active in Scouts and church youth groups. As a teenager, I was lucky to have a local "Teen Town" where I danced to live bands on Saturdays and DJs on Fridays. I most enjoyed summers. As a family, we went on picnics and to fairs and horse shows. When I was thirteen, we got a pool and my friends would come and swim.

Bob first became interested in photography at age 12. His neighbor, Bill Mucklow, had a darkroom in his house, lent Bob a camera and paid him to develop some of his film. Bob and his friend, Jim Wolfe, took pictures of the Oak Ridge Boys and sold them some of their shots. Bob was an Audiovisual Assistant in high school and took pictures for the newspaper. He even got some jobs shooting weddings.

The newspaper clipping was from the Charleston Daily Mail when Bob was "Cornered by the Camera" by staff photographer Chet Hawes who later became Bob's coworker. 

The 50s

Those of us born in the 1950s remember Ed Sullivan, TV dinners & the polio vaccine. I was to young to remember Rosa Parks and even the Civil Right Act.

Here's some of what I remember from my early childhood:
"We lived in a house near my father's garage. My sister, Terry, was five years older. When she was in school, I sang to records, played on the swing set and played cowboys with the neighbor boy. Going to school at age six was tough for me being separated from my mother for the first time."

Bob remembers:
"I played with toy guns and soldiers, matchbox cars and tanks. I had many neighborhood friends in St. Albans. Steve Woodard was my best friend. In the picture where I'm looking out the window, I was vacationing in Florida and got the mumps. The group shot is my Kindergarten class at St. Andrew's Methodist Church."

Layout made in 2003.

It was easy to look back 40, 50, 60 years ago and summarize events than it was to look back at the last decade!     

The Gift

It was Chris' idea to buy me earrings for Christmas. He wouldn't let me look. I could hear him ask the clerk, "Do you have one of those little boxes to put these in?" The earrings looked like dangling Christmas ornaments. He wasn't sure he got pierced, so he drew me a picture of the back of the earrings. I wore them Christmas Day and many days to follow. He was so proud

December 16, 1998
Chris was 5 years old

Then and Now

It was 44 years ago we were Dietetic Interns at the Medical College of Virginia.  There were 12 of us.  At the Food and Nutrition Conference and Expo 2019, Maria, Georgia, Marsha and I met for an updated photo.

The pocket at the bottom has a card inside from those same interns that I received along with a bridal present.  1976 and 2019

Harley

Harley Maddox lost his farm in Putnam County and moved his family to Charleston in 1932. Bob's Mom Maxine was 13. Maxine with Mom, Dad and 3 siblings moved to Red Oak Street on the west side. Harley and his brother formed a chicken business which operated through 1955 when Harley retired. They had a booth at the Patrick Street Farmers Market where customers picked out a live chicken and the brothers took it to the back to process on site. Harley said his best customers were "gypsies". Maxine's mother Lillie died in 1936. Harley married Lakie and they moved to Frame Street. Lakie is pictured here with Bob's brother David at a 1972 dinner. Harley shows off his family garden.

Memories 1960s

I have a box with cards and ephemera from the sixties and scanned some to make a digital cover for the pocket. The pocket is sewed onto the background paper and a few things stuffed inside.  

Bob and I did not meet until the early 70s, but some of his memories are journaled here too. I did not have ephemera to include with his, but found a yearbook to get his picture.

The journaling is in the center of the pocket.

"(Cindy)  I had good grades in school though my emphasis was more on my friends than books. My friends were in Girl Scouts, band, swimming and Teen Town. I drove my Dads’ old 61 Chevy and always had a friend beside me. My favorite subjects were home economics, journalism and algebra which I use even to this day.

(Bob)  I was a decent student and liked English and history the best. I was lousy at math. The 60s were when I first got interested in photography and learned how to set the controls on a camera and how to develop and print pictures in a darkroom.

When I was in high school, the art teacher got photography and darkroom equipment and got me to set up the darkroom and teach other students how to use it.

I worked in the audio-visual department all through high school. We set up AV equipment for the teachers, made videotapes of educational TV programs, and even shot movie film of basketball games for the coach. I had a key to the school so I could go in on weekends to make the video tapes.

I really liked my senior history class. We had to do a major project, so Jim Wolfe and I borrowed the school movie camera and made a movie about the Civil War in WV. We went to several places where there were battles and shot film for our movie."

 

Memories 1950s

As a young child, I loved listening to the record player and swinging on my swing. Sister Terry was 5 years older and I learned from her. My grandparents had a cabin at Deep Creek where we spent many summer days playing with cousins, swimming in the fresh water, fishing and crabbing. I loved the meals of fresh fish and eating watermelon outside. I made my first scrapbook, cutting pages of Annette Funicello stories out of my Aunt's salon magazines. In the first grade, I was sad to leave home and my Mom. We went to Sunday School, dressed in fancy hats and shoes, where I made many friends. When entering school, I joined the girl scouts and made life-long friendships. I took ballet lessons at the town Union hall. In school I was competitive, yet ornery. I enjoyed music, acrobatics, swimming and crafts. We moved into our newly built house in 1960 when my Grandparents moved along beside us. Brother Jim was born in 1958.

The "Scrap Book" on the right of the page is a pocket I sewed onto the background sheet. I has a few mementos inside-a birthday card signed in my Dads' handwriting, the hospital bill when I was born (some $50) and a few pictures.

In the picture of the group at Vacation Bible School, I'm the little girl (I was 2) on the right, bottom row.  That's me and my sister in the boat in the picture on the left.

Bloomin Birthday

While I'm not a fan of another birthday, we started celebrating a week ago when Bob got me roses! Then we took a trip to some old stomping grounds-Huntington and Charleston where we lived and worked in the late 70s and early 80s. We skyped with Greg and Michelle on Sunday morning, then Chris came with flowers, cake and more Sunday afternoon. While in Huntington, I visited with my old colleagues at Marshall.

March 2020

January Cards

This birthday card is for my former colleague Brenda.  She misses work-I called her after Christmas to say I missed her too.

This birthday wish is sent to you
To celebrate in all you do
Your heart is kind
Your soul is true
This kindness is but one with you.

 Birthday card for my sister Terry. I gave her a primrose in a pretty "Love" box that had spaces for 2 other plants.

It means so much throughout the year
to have a sister just like you,
You're thoughtful, warm and caring,
and understanding too.
That's why this Birthday message comes with thanks and special love,
To wish you all the happiness
you're so deserving of.

For my friend Betty who has post chemo nausea. She said the ginger cookies I gave her zapped the nausea. I also gave her a "healing" charm.

For Jim, a former colleague who was born on groundhog day.

 

Today is rather special,
And it really wouldn't do,
If I ignored this notable occasion,
By not sending good wishes to you,
For you deserve some recognition,
For what you do for others each day,
You never command any attention,
You just do it in your own quiet way,
A thoughtful and considerate gentleman,
Head and shoulders above the rest,
So this cards holds lots of love and thoughts,
Hoping this birthday is one of the best!